Pain affects our lives in unpredictable ways. It only makes us alot more mature and open to differences. We must always use our pain to be a better version of ourselves, a heartbreak doesn’t have to make you cold hearted. Try being kind instead, it only brings you happiness. We often tend to let our emotions spill in front of people who are going through struggles of their own. When in intense pain, our mind is numb, senseless and immature, so it’s better to have this time to yourself instead of letting out your frustration on other people.
I always find pain beautiful as it only leads to growth, pain is always a process of you finding your true self, even if it means that you have to let others go.
When hurt, never deceive other people as only you know that you’re not in a good state but don’t forget that every individual comes with a perspective of his/her own and you can not force someone to think in one specific way.
So yeah pain only lets you bloom to a better you and you shouldn’t give every one the power of letting them hurt you. Pain indeed makes people change, but only you decide if its for better or for worse.
